Learn to Give an Erotic Massage
Vacation destinations and resorts offer massages as part of their
luxury appeal. Spas and salons offer them because they help
people feel better about their bodies. Physicians recommend
them for a variety of aches and pains, as a good massage promotes
health and healing. Massage is considered both an art and a
skill; professionals go through extensive training to learn all the
right moves. But the best massage isn't done by a
professional, it's done by a lover, who is taking the time to savor
every curve of his or her partner's body.
||A well-done romantic
massage is sure to send shivers up your lover's
spine, titillating their senses and allowing them to relax and focus on
every touch. While the recipient of the massage is enjoying
sensual sensation, the massage giver has the chance to gain
intimate knowledge of his or her partner's body. Not only
will a good
massage make the two of you feel closer, it will also pave the way for
extraordinary sex and a sound night's sleep afterwards. That
like a lot to ask from your two, untrained hands, doesn't it?
Relax! Anyone can learn to give an excellent, erotic massage.
you're feeling really inadequate or uninspired, there are many massage
books that can help you to get started. Study up!
Texts like The
Sensual Art of Massage and Erotic
Partner Massage are great starting points for anyone who
feels less than confident as a masseuse. They explain the
touches that excite each body part, detailing which surfaces respond to
rough touches and which prefer a gentle tickle. Massage
offer advice on the most sensitive and erotic body parts, allowing you
to turn a romantic massage into a sensually thrilling experience for
your lover. Books
on massage can give you the knowledge needed to
please your partner with an sexual rub down.
However, book knowledge isn't enough. You have to be ready
and willing to experiment with your lover to customize your massage to
his or her liking. Some people prefer gentle touches and some
do not respond unless the massage is hard and rough. Open the
lines of communication. No one in his (or her) right mind is
going to turn down the opportunity to receive a massage from their
lover. Ask your partner to demonstrate what feels good.
Devote some time to experimenting with different sensations
for tickling, silk for slipping and sliding, coarse fabrics
for a rougher touch. Try out warming
massage oils and ice cubes to excite the nerves in opposite
ways. You can even see how your partner feels about a gentle
blindfold over the eyes to heighten his or her other senses.
You can purchase many of these things as part of a massage
kit, or simply choose substitutes from around your
Remember, the first massage you give doesn't have to be perfect.
If you take the time to learn exactly what your partner
desires, he or she will appreciate not only your effort but the end
result as well. Pretty soon, neither of you will ever feel
compelled to visit a professional masseuse again!