Using Sex Toys to Get Out of a Sexual Rut
Once a new couple settles in to a comfortable, monogamous relationship,
it is very common for their sex lives to become as routine as the rest
of their lives. Each partner quickly figures out where to
touch, how hard, and how fast in order to please his or her lover, and
passion can be lost as each person begins following a predictable
pattern to please the other. Certain positions are used out
of habit, just as certain locations are -- and while the sex is still
satisfying, it loses the butterflies and excitement that existed at the
start of the relationship.
Do you find yourself headed down this monotonous road with your
long-time lover? Are you already there, going through the
motions and waiting for things to heat up again? Wait no
more. Instead, allow me to present you with three hot ways to
make things new again!
Location, Location, Location -- Change it up for better
bed may be big, and soft, and the default place where you end up doing
the deed before drifting off to sleep. However, unless you
live in a
one room shoebox with no indoor plumbing, there are many many other
great places to get it. Doesn't everyone love to steam up the
with a hot, wet lover? That's the best place to throw in
new, like a waterproof
jelly vibrator or a vibrating
sponge. Don't forget the erotic
bath salts or glow
in the dark bubble bath. Or, go all out and buy the
fun bath pail. Who says bath toys are for kids?!
Better yet, present your partner with a romantic meal for two on the
kitchen table. Don a sexy set of edible
undies or some flavored
topping on your most delectable parts, and satisfy all your sexual
cravings. If you're feeling particularly domestic, you can
even fix up
an array of adult-themed
goodies for a post-sex feast.
think of all the spaces in your home that are dying to be part of your
love life. The big comfy couch, the carpet in front of the
the wall in the hallway. Go all out and expand your horizons
the house as well -- your car, a secluded spot on the beach, a quaint
motel. Get out of that stale, tired bedroom and just do it!
Slow Down Sex for Increased Heat
The titillation of making out and hours of foreplay that accompany a
courtship often fall by the wayside once penetrative sex has become a
part of a couple's routine. Bring back that excitement by
declaring a ban on sex for a weekend, a week, or even a month.
Instead, use your time to re-connect through intimate
foreplay. If you need some help getting started, erotic
books, doctor viagra, massage
lotions, and sex
games can give you the tips and tools to get things going.
In other words, ban sex but find other ways to be close to
one another. Use massage
creams and explore your lover's body. Read romantic
stories to each other. Talk about your fantasies
and bond by laughing over silly romantic
games. Once you've gone without sex for a time, you
may just find renewed passion when you do decide to go for it again.
Try a New Position
You don't need to become a bedroom acrobat
to spice things up in the sack, but you could stand to try out
something new. If you already have a repertoire of moves that
carry out during sex, get some inspiration on new positions to try.
like this one recommend numerous sex
positions, using helpful illustrations.
can also help you to reach new heights in pleasure with gravity defying
moves and some added bounce! While these are a bit on the
side, the dimensions they can add to your sexual relationship are worth
the price. Love
swings are comfortable, easy to use, and will make you feel
more flexible than ever before.
Follow these three tips,
and you'll be well on your way to better sex, increased intimacy, and a
renewed enjoyment of your lover and all he or she has to offer.
Just say no to a stale sex life!