So You've Never Had An Orgasm
Sex Toys May Be the
|You've had romantic
relationships. You've had sex. Many times, even.
But that earth-shattering, mind-blowing finale that's
supposed to make
the whole experience worthwhile? Not so much.
It's not uncommon for a woman to go through the motions of
months or years (and with multiple partners) before ever enjoying the
big payoff: orgasm. Before you resign yourself to a
unfulfilling sex -- or start chanting the popular, "I like sex.
don't need an orgasm for it to feel good" mantra -- invest in a few adult toys
and set aside some quality time with yourself and eventually, your
to Know Your Sexual Preferences
You can't teach your lover to please you if you're unsure of how to
please yourself. Even if your partner manages to give you an
orgasm, you'll get far more pleasure out of it if you can recognize the
signs that it's coming and prepare yourself to enjoy every second of
it. The last thing you want is to be left wondering, "What
That's why I recommend investing in an awesome solo sex toy like a
vibrator. Of course, experimenting manually is an
excellent start, giving you the opportunity to get to know the intimate
parts of your body with nothing other than your fingertips.
Unfortunately, if you're hoping to have an orgasm from
penetrative sex, you'll need to do better than that. A good
vibrator or realistic
dildo can help you to determine the most satisfying angles
positions for pleasurable penetration.
Practice, practice, practice! Once you've mastered the art of
orgasm all on your own, you'll be able to direct future partners to all
your favorite places.
Boosting Your Lover's Performance
hours of solo sex practice may not be quite enough to achieve the
orgasm you want once another person becomes part of the equation.
Maybe you've found some terrific pleasure spots on your own,
and you're having difficulty getting your partner to find his way
there. It's okay to admit that he needs a little assistance
-- a good lover is eager to please and will welcome your suggestions,
as long as you offer them in a helpful, uncritical manner.
||First, figure out what
he's missing. If your solo journeys led you to the land of
and you're eager to repeat the experience with your lover, a penis
may be your new best friend. Designed with the exact curve
reach your g-spot, these toys can help you enjoy penetration with a
partner more than you ever have before.
Perhaps you require constant (or at least consistent) clitoral
in order to produce an orgasm. You're not alone!
You and your lover might both feel more
satisfied once you invest in a targeted vibe for your clit.
several small, hands-free
that a woman can wear while still enjoying vaginal penetration.
may even discover that simultaneous orgasms aren't as elusive (nor as
overrated) as you've heard!
With open lines of communication and the right accessories, the
ultimate in sexual satisfaction is yours for the taking!