Exploring Prostate Play with Sex Toys
Curiosity abounds with regards to the orgasmic potential of the male
prostate. In this article, we’ll focus on covering what the
prostate is, how to find it, and selecting the best
sex toys to use to
and delight this often-forgotten area of the male body.
What is the Prostate?
The Prostate Gland is a small gland in the body that is oriented with
the male reproductive system. Approximately the size of a
walnut, the prostate gland is located in the pelvic area, tucked right
near the pelvic bone, just below the outlet of the bladder, and
surrounded by muscle. The primary function of this gland is storing and
producing seminal fluid, the milky liquid that nourishes sperm.
Engaging in Prostate Play
As with any form of anal
penetration and activity, not all men will
like prostate play. There are
societal taboos for heterosexual men surrounding partaking in anal
play, and many men simply are not interested in exploring
this area of
their body. For those who do experiment with this exciting type of sex toy
play for men, there will be some men who simply not find it
stimulating as much as others. This is perfectly normal, as
every individual has their own respective likes, dislikes, and
It is easiest to try out a new form
of foreplay when aroused. Spend a lot of enjoyable, sensual
time with your partner warming him
up, teasing him, and arousing him. Foreplay
enjoyable for both partners, and it’s best to experiment when
both of you are enjoying yourselves and feeling comfortable with one
To locate the prostate, insert a well-lubricated finger about two to
three inches, (or two the second knuckle of your finger), and curl your
finger in a ‘come here’ gesture. Stroke
toward the front of the body, and you should be able to feel the
prostate on the front part of the rectal wall. When sliding your finger
on the front side up and inside the rectum, the prostate will feel like
a rounded lump.
the prostate gently, and allow your partner to tell you what
feels good. Some men prefer a pressing motion opposed to a rubbing
motion, or a more firm press than a light stroke.
Observe your partner’s breathing and the relaxation through
their body gestures, and communicate openly with him about how
he’s feeling. Stroking the shaft
of his penis and caressing
his body while doing this will only help him to feel more turned on and
aroused with the new sensation.
Using Prostate Stimulating Sex Toys
There are a number
of sex toys that can be great fun for prostate
stimulation. Many toys made for stimulating women’s
g-spots can also be used for prostate play. As always, if
sharing toys, make sure to slide a condom over the toy and clean
thoroughly when using it on different partners. No anal
toy that is inserted
into the rectum should be inserted into another partner or
woman’s vagina until it has been thoroughly cleaned.
There are also male
sex toys made specifically for anal
sex toy play, including those
that vibrate and have multiple settings for different
sensations. Sex toys can be made from acrylic material, glass,
silicone, or a more pliable jelly material, and many of these adult sex toys
be chilled or heated to promote varied feelings.
As with anything else, adding some prostate play to a sensual massage,
oral or manual foreplay can result in increasingly pleasurable orgasms
for your male partner.
Have fun experimenting with all that prostate play has to offer!